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Getting Impatient on The Road

I read a comic sometimes ago, it says the best way to drive a person crazy, even the nicest, purest, bestest, calmest person in the world, would be putting him/her on the road. That statement is rather true, unless he/she is the one that drives other people crazy... =.= Nowadays, maybe due to 'aging', the more impatient I am behind the wheels. I would easily curse the other person to their earliest ancestors for their reckless driving. There's one time I was yelled at when I turned into a left junction without seeing a car right beside me, or should I rephrase, the sight of the car unfortunately fell in the blind spot of the rear- and side-view mirror. The car honked me along the stretch of the road, and wind down the mirror to shout at me. =.= That's why later I bought a pair of fish eye mirror ( or what you call that, the round thingy mirror) to put on the side mirror. Recently, I found yet another two reckless behaviors of road users that not only it's a

回家

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又要写一篇不是很新的部落文了... 上个星期回家一趟,因为要立外公外婆的墓碑。 询问了‘专家’。他说十八号是好时好日! 天赦时天赦日! 所谓天赦,就是你那时跟‘上面的’祈求任何事物,祂都会approve! 只是,改天再跟你算! (这就是为什么我欣赏这种礼教-祂不会完全赦免,只是收着以后跟你算!) 每交一次新朋友,他们都‘有幸’见识到我那 可爱的爸爸 。 因为这次,他又长途跋涉地过来陪我驾车回家。 要说我不孝就尽管说吧,反正我的爸爸就是这么伟大这么可爱。 去找了我的麻吉和见见我可爱的干儿子乐乐。 也天才地忘了做一件事:跟可爱干儿子拍照!! -_- 麻吉做了一大盘丰富午餐: ^很多料啊~~肚子饿了没? 干儿子乐乐太可爱了,一直笑一直笑,一脸喜洋洋的。 也见识了他惊天动地的哭声。宏亮到~~~丹田很赞噢 :p 希望我的未来小外甥也是个喜洋洋的小宝贝 :) 向各位关心的朋友们报告一下:我的大姐很好 :) 她是个超级无敌坚强的大女人! 好喜欢摸她的肚子。 亲家母也有提议我到他们家过夜,让他们家热闹热闹一点。 只是我呆的时间太短,不然肯定睡那里的。 伤痛总会有的,可是Life has to go on... 立墓碑当天,娘也买了个‘未来的家’给自己和爹。 我和妹确实有点乍舌。 我更错愕,以为是自己多嘴乱提议。 还好爹娘反应良好。 不久两老就要退休了。 我们每每问到退休后要做什么,两老都说: “在家里吵架咯~” -________________- 真是对不想让女儿回家静心的两老啊~ 就酱! :)

First Dogsitting Experience - JackJack

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Theresa was out of town last weekend, so she asked me to help her take care of her pet dog, JackJack. The task is simple enough: feed him, let him out for toilet break, and lock him in his cage at night. Jack 101 briefing was done a day before, and I got to say Hi to Jack during his walk. It's quite surprising that he is so small size! Too cuteness overload. When I first arrived Thes's house on Saturday, Jack peeked at me from inside the house, and when I went into the house, I couldn't find him anywhere visible until... ^Yikes! I scared the hell out of him! After calling his name few times and got no respond, I decided to make myself comfortable and showed no threat (like I'm welcomed in the house) . Seconds later... ^Came out and played! Jack is really such petite sized dog, he runs around the house without knocking down anything (literally because there's no junks in the house at all that it has so much space for him to run), hides under the table,

生命没有Take Two

姐夫去世了,毫无预警地... 当爹传了个信息兼打电话来说:"你姐夫昏迷不醒,现在在医院抢救中,如果30分钟后还救不回来就..."时,我整个人呆住了。 什么叫做30分钟救不回来?? 有这么严重吗? 他不是一向来都壮得像头牛吗 (绝对没有贬义的意思) ?? 直到一个小时后,再收到坏消息,我的心急了起来,一路忐忑不安加归心似箭的心情从槟城往玻璃市冲去。可是,我却一直没办法消化这个事情,一直在‘这,不是真的’的想法里。 直到我‘风尘仆仆’地赶回了家,去了灵堂,才终于接受了;姐夫,真的走了。 前半段的资讯让我觉得人生苦短,世事难料。 后半段的资讯补充却让我很是气愤,因为... 1) 心脏病征兆都有了,却固执地都不要去看医生。 2) 不好的生活习惯 3) 再怎么说都已经是有家室的人了,不为自己想,也为自己的老迈母亲和妻儿(还是未出生的孩子呢!!) 想想吧! 4) 他父亲也是去世于心脏病。 现在,说再多也没用。 他,好像 电脑突然当机 一样,就这样‘关机’了。 可是,他却没有一个reset button可以‘重生’。 每次一看到大姐大腹便便招待客人的背影,看到他母亲因为悲痛过度而虚弱无力地躺在躺椅上,不仅心酸了起来。 甚至跟妹达成一个共识,就是我们会哭不是因为姐夫没了,而是因为我们心疼我们的大姐,心疼未出生的小外甥... 正所谓,生命没有take two。 不要以为自己会很长命,固执是没办法跟阎罗王延长寿命的... 你死了就算了,可是活着的人却痛不欲生啊~ 也因为如此,我们誓言要当全天下最棒的阿姨!!

Appreciate Life, Please...

My brother in law passed away on 29 th Feb, last Wednesday. The news shocks us all, everyone, family and friends. I received dad’s SMS at around 8.30pm when I was having my dinner in Juru Autocity that my BIL collapsed into coma and was admitted to the Emergency ward. I went blank, unable to digest the news, quickly called dad, and the more shocking details stunned me. Dad said:”the doctors are trying their best, but if they couldn’t revive him in 30 minutes, he’ll … … …” Stupefied, I quickly informed Lim Tino about the news, and even astonished to learn that Da Jie was in KL at the time, and that they’d meet each other in the airport to catch the latest plane back. In total astonishment, I quickly finished my meal and drove back to Perlis, where at this time I received another SMS from dad that my BIL was gone. I stopped by Alor Star to buy the earliest ticket for the next day, where I had a very bad experience with the Shamisha bus. The moment I reached KB, I started to