生命没有Take Two

姐夫去世了，毫无预警地...

当爹传了个信息兼打电话来说:"你姐夫昏迷不醒，现在在医院抢救中，如果30分钟后还救不回来就..."时，我整个人呆住了。

什么叫做30分钟救不回来？？
有这么严重吗？
他不是一向来都壮得像头牛吗（绝对没有贬义的意思)？？

直到一个小时后，再收到坏消息，我的心急了起来，一路忐忑不安加归心似箭的心情从槟城往玻璃市冲去。可是，我却一直没办法消化这个事情，一直在‘这，不是真的’的想法里。

直到我‘风尘仆仆’地赶回了家，去了灵堂，才终于接受了；姐夫，真的走了。

前半段的资讯让我觉得人生苦短，世事难料。
后半段的资讯补充却让我很是气愤，因为...

1) 心脏病征兆都有了，却固执地都不要去看医生。
2) 不好的生活习惯
3) 再怎么说都已经是有家室的人了，不为自己想，也为自己的老迈母亲和妻儿（还是未出生的孩子呢!!） 想想吧!
4) 他父亲也是去世于心脏病。

现在，说再多也没用。

他，好像电脑突然当机一样，就这样‘关机’了。

可是，他却没有一个reset button可以‘重生’。

每次一看到大姐大腹便便招待客人的背影，看到他母亲因为悲痛过度而虚弱无力地躺在躺椅上，不仅心酸了起来。

甚至跟妹达成一个共识，就是我们会哭不是因为姐夫没了，而是因为我们心疼我们的大姐，心疼未出生的小外甥...

正所谓，生命没有take two。 不要以为自己会很长命，固执是没办法跟阎罗王延长寿命的... 你死了就算了，可是活着的人却痛不欲生啊~

也因为如此，我们誓言要当全天下最棒的阿姨！！

Comments

tino said…
tak tak bai siu ki lai, pun si kolian kak li ji nia...
March 9, 2012 at 8:45:00 PM GMT+8
~会赢 HueyYiN~ said…
遠在他鄉的我痛哭到不像樣也是因爲。。。捨不得我們姐姐要這麽難過、傷心~~~
March 10, 2012 at 10:46:00 AM GMT+8
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