Girls vs Ladies
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Ladies know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls check you constantly for not calling them.
Ladies are usually too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Ladies are not. They use this as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Ladies ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come home.
Ladies make you want to come home.
Girls fight other females claiming "you took my man".
Ladies know that he isn't worth the trouble & no one can "take" anyone, he chose to leave!
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Ladies make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Ladies know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man, flaws & all!
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time
(i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Ladies give him all the time and leaves him wonderng whether she really has time for her
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Ladies offer their shoulder and a tissue while understanding that he's still human.
Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Ladies 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to splurge on her, without fear of losing his 'manhood'.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for itLadies know that HE was just one man (and know that if they stop shopping in the same store, they will stop picking the same man).Ladies know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-
Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, IGNORING all 'signs'.
and know they must move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and unwisely get an attitude.
Ladies will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends
So, are you a Girl? Or a Lady?
It is an email received from Jerry, the Cameroon guy who teaches at Xinjiang Polytechnic College. I'm not a forward-email type of person, but I want to share this badly, so I just post up here. Enjoy~